Dating Advice for Men: Why Some Women Like Younger Men
By
Dina Giolitto
Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. Madonna and Guy Ritchie. Your
old high school English teacher and... your best buddy?! Hey, it could happen.
These days, if an older woman wants a baby, she can have one.
There will always be the Traditional Tina, scoping out an
older fella who’s "on her maturity level" as she likes to think- and who's
willing to play provider. But what of the ever-growing population of footloose
women with their crazy cradle-robbing ways? Is this another Maggie May, who, as
Rod Stewart tells it, will "wreck your bed, and in the morning kick you in the
head?" Or is she some lonely desperado, hoping to latch on to a kinder, gentler
generation of men? Here are some insights as to why some women prefer to date
younger guys.
Not every girl wants a father figure. Often, a man
who’s older than you assumes a protective and paternal role; and to many women,
this is a real turn-off. Why? Well, for starters, we already have a daddy! Not
to mention, the woman who holds a high-paying exec job Monday through Friday may
have some trouble playing Helpless Heather on the weekends. She's used to taking
care of herself, speaking on her own behalf, and yes, even paying her own way
without the help of Daddy Warbucks.
Younger men are often better in bed. Ahh, the cruel
irony of life. Remember sex with your college girlfriend? That 21-year-old
‘fraidy cat is now a tigress of temptation. Something funny happens to women as
they age. Their testosterone levels increase; oddly enough, around the same time
that men’s are plummeting. The hormone surge gives ladies a libido lift, which
is why women in their 30s and 40s just want to get busy. Meanwhile, our same-age
male counterparts are busy studying the inside of their eyelids. Need I say
more?
Younger guys look up to an older, successful woman.
Let’s talk about those corporate power babes again. Sometimes, it's lonely at
the top... but not when there's a starry-eyed cutie-pie smiling up at you!
There's something to be said for having a younger guy who admires you for your
accomplishments. It makes you feel great, and the sad fact is, you can’t always
get that kind of respect from an older man. Baby Boomers may love Donna Reed,
but guys born later can understand and better appreciate women who go after
their dreams.
The metrosexual male is our cup of tea. Nothing like
having your boy over for some afternoon delight and finding out he borrowed your
loofah in the shower. The New Generation of open-minded guys is A-OK in our
book! This guy can whip up a Thai stir-fry using organic ingredients, grooms his
fingernails and his toenails, is politically-correct to a fault, and won’t eat
Starkist if it might harm the baby dolphins. To the 40-something who grew up
with Archie Bunker, he's a breath of fresh air.
Girls just want to have fun. Some of us are downright
immature, and we’re not afraid to say it! Perhaps "young at heart" is the better
term, but the point is this: some old gals really do just want to have fun. Lots
of broads who are pushing fifty still rock out at concerts, drive 70 mph with
the top down, stay out all night, flip people off when necessary, and generally
wreak havoc. That’s not to say we can’t find a man of ANY age to engage in
juvenile antics with us... but, well, the younger ones just seem more willing to
join in the fun.
Some women are late bloomers. Embarrassing as it may
be, plenty of chicks spend the better part of their 20s mired in self-doubt and
confusion. Instead of kicking back like they should have, the rainclouds of
pessimism hung around to dampen their fun and turn them into neurotic freaks.
Ten years later, some of those very same basketcases have mellowed into chill
ladies who are just now ready to embrace life to the fullest. If this involves
cavorting with young fellas in ways they never thought possible, all the better!
Better late than never, right girls?
Guys in their prime are ohhhh, so fine. If you had to
choose between a thick, juicy steak and some shriveled up beef jerky, which one
would you pick? In the same way that men can't help looking at supple young
girls, we ladies find ourselves drawn to guys under thirty. Younger men have
tight bodies, bright eyes, great smiles, and usually a crowd of buddies to keep
them laughing and pumped for excitement. What's the alternative? The balding
bachelor with a beer gut who sits home smoking stogies and listening to
Springsteen's Glory Days on repeat mode? No, thanks!
In all seriousness, it shouldn’t matter the age of two people
who mutually respect and enjoy each other’s company. We love who we love, not
matter what their age or what they look like. If an older woman and a younger
man feel comfortable having a relationship, then no one has the right to
criticize them. To the lady who simply likes a quick fling with a hot young
stallion? Here’s to you, Mrs. Robinson.
Copyright 2005 Dina Giolitto. All rights reserved.
Dina Giolitto is a New-Jersey based Copywriting Consultant
with nine years' industry experience. Her current focus is web content and web
marketing for a multitude of products and services although the bulk of her
experience lies in retail for big-name companies like Toys"R"Us. Visit
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